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Signs of Dyslexia and Dyspraxia in Children

Identifying learning difficulties early can make a world of difference in a child’s educational journey. Dyslexia and dyspraxia are two of the most common neurodivergent profiles that affect how children and young people process information and navigate the physical world. While they are separate conditions, they often overlap, and understanding the specific signs for both young children and older children is the first step toward securing the right support.

At Northants SEND Family Guidance, we want to empower parents to recognise these signs so they can work effectively with their school senco and the local authority to ensure no child is left behind.

Understanding Dyslexia

Dyslexia is a specific learning difficulty that primarily affects the skills involved in accurate and fluent word reading and spelling. It is important to remember that people with dyslexia are often extremely creative and high achievers; their brains simply process language differently.

Signs in Young Children (Pre-school and Early Primary)

In young children, dyslexia may not immediately look like a reading problem. Instead, you might notice:

  • Speech Delays: Taking longer to start talking or persistently mispronouncing common words.
  • Rhyming Struggles: They may find it difficult to join in with nursery rhymes or identify words that sound the same.
  • Directional Confusion: Getting “left” and “right” mixed up or struggling with “up” and “down.”
  • Sequence Issues: Difficulty remembering the order of the days of the week or the alphabet.

Signs in Older Children (Key Stage 2 and Above)

As the academic pressure increases, older children with dyslexia may experience:

  • Slow Reading: They may read very slowly or lose their place on the page frequently.
  • Visual Stress: Reporting that the letters seem to “jump” or “blur” on the white paper.
  • Spelling Inconsistency: Spelling the same word three different ways in a single paragraph.
  • Avoidance: Developing a “class clown” persona or becoming very withdrawn to avoid reading aloud.

Understanding Dyspraxia (DCD)

Dyspraxia, also known as Developmental Coordination Disorder (DCD), affects physical coordination. It makes the brain take longer to process the “instructions” needed to move the body. This can impact everything from fine motor skills (writing) to gross motor skills (running).

Signs in Young Children

For young children, dyspraxia often manifests as what people traditionally call “clumsiness”:

  • Milestone Delays: Being late to crawl, walk, or feed themselves.
  • Fine Motor Struggles: Finding it difficult to use safety scissors, crayons, or build with small blocks.
  • Dressing Difficulties: Struggling with buttons, zips, or putting shoes on the correct feet.
  • Spatial Awareness: Frequently bumping into furniture or falling over “nothing.”

Signs in Older Children

In older children, the challenges move into the classroom and social settings:

  • Handwriting Issues: Writing may be very messy, or they may find the physical act of writing extremely tiring (known as dysgraphia).
  • PE Struggles: They may find it difficult to catch a ball, ride a bike, or keep up with team sports, which can impact their self-esteem.
  • Organisation: Struggling to keep their bag tidy, losing equipment, or forgetting their homework despite having done it.
  • Social Interaction: Sometimes children with dyspraxia struggle with the “timing” of conversations or games, which can lead to social isolation.

The Overlap: When a Child Has Both

It is very common for people with dyslexia to also show traits of dyspraxia. This is sometimes called “comorbidity.” When a child faces both learning difficulties, they might be highly intelligent but feel “locked” behind a wall of physical and literacy-based hurdles.

In these cases, the extra support provided at school needs to be holistic. It isn’t just about reading help; it’s about providing laptop access for writing, extra time for movement, and sensory breaks to prevent burnout.

How to Support Your Child at Home

If you suspect your child is showing signs of these learning difficulties, there are many “low-pressure” ways to help at home:

  1. Use Multi-Sensory Techniques: For dyslexia, try “writing” letters in sand or using magnetic letters on the fridge.
  2. Break Tasks Down: For dyspraxia, give one instruction at a time. Instead of “Get your bag, shoes, and coat,” start with “Please find your shoes.”
  3. Assistive Technology: Explore audiobooks or “speech-to-text” software. This allows children and young people to express their ideas without being held back by their spelling or handwriting.
  4. Celebrate Strengths: Focus on what they can do. Whether it is building complex LEGO sets, being great at art, or being a kind friend, building confidence is the best way to combat the frustration of SEN.

Taking the Next Steps in Northamptonshire

If you are worried about your child’s progress, your first port of call should always be the school senco. They can carry out initial screenings to see if your child’s needs fall under the special educational needs sen framework.

If the school’s additional support is not enough, you may need to look into a formal assessment through the local authority. This can lead to an education health and care plan (EHCP), which provides legal protection and funding for the specific help your child needs.

Conclusion: Empowerment Through Understanding

Dyslexia and dyspraxia are not barriers to a successful life; they are simply different ways of being. Many world-class architects, engineers, and authors are people with dyslexia or dyspraxia. By identifying these signs early in young children and providing consistent help through to their time as older children, we can ensure they reach their full potential.

At Northants SEND Family Guidance, we are here to help you navigate these terms and the systems that support them. You don’t have to figure it out alone.

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EHCP Support

Support with all stages of the EHCP process including:

This service helps ensure your child’s EHCP accurately reflects their needs and protects their support long-term.

Critical Review of Draft EHCP

A detailed professional review of your child’s Draft EHCP. This is usually time critical as you only have 15 days to submit your request for amendments.
You will receive a document outlining recommended amendments to ensure:

This can make a significant difference to whether provision is properly delivered.

School Meeting Support

School meetings can sometimes feel intimidating, particularly when important decisions are being made about your child’s education and support. I offer support to parents by helping you prepare for meetings, understand your child’s rights and ensure that the provision outlined in their EHCP is being properly discussed and implemented.

I can also attend meetings alongside you where appropriate, helping to ask the right questions, challenge unclear information and ensure that conversations remain focused on your child’s needs. My role is to help parents feel confident, informed and heard, so that decisions are made in the best interests of the child.

DLA and PIP Application Support

Completing forms for Disability Living Allowance (DLA) or Personal Independence Payment (PIP) can feel overwhelming, especially when you are already managing the day-to-day needs of your child or family member.
These forms require detailed information about how a condition impacts everyday life, and many families struggle to know how to present this clearly.

I offer support with completing these applications, helping you explain your child’s needs in a way that accurately reflects the level of support required. This can include working through the form with you, helping to word responses appropriately, and ensuring the full impact of your child’s needs is recognised.

My aim is to make the process less stressful while giving your application the best possible chance of success.

Child Needs Assessment

I offer a comprehensive assessment of your child’s needs, designed to build a clear picture of their strengths, challenges and the support they require to thrive both at home and in education. This assessment considers areas such as emotional regulation, sensory needs, learning profile, behaviour, communication, and how demands in everyday environments may be impacting your child.

The process includes gathering information from parents, discussing your child’s experiences at home and school, and observing patterns in behaviour, regulation and engagement. Following the assessment, you will receive a written report outlining key areas of need alongside practical recommendations and supportive strategies that can be implemented at home or within school.

This assessment can also help parents better understand their child’s profile, support conversations with schools, and provide useful information when considering additional support or future EHCP applications.

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